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How to cope with your emotions during a divorce

Going through a divorce will almost certainly ignite negative emotions within you. This is because divorce was probably never what you imagined that you would go through in life, and it may be that you are in a state of shock or feel that you have failed in some way.

While divorce might be what you believe is the best way forward in this situation, you may also feel guilty about how the divorce is impacting your children and worry about how they are dealing with these changes. The following are some things that you can do to help cope with your emotions in a divorce.

Allow grieving to occur

You mustn’t simply try to avoid negative emotions. Instead of doing this, try to simply be aware of them. Take time for yourself and remember that grieving is a natural process of any separation.

Remember that you are doing your best

If you feel guilty because you believe that you are not giving your children the perfect childhood they deserve, try to reframe your thoughts. No childhood is perfect, and you should remember that you are doing your best to support your children and to help them succeed in life.

Look to the future

If the present seems difficult and uncertain, try to set goals for the future so that you can move forward. This can help you fuel yourself with optimism and motivation.

If you are contemplating a divorce but you don’t know whether it’s the right thing to do, try to think about where you see yourself two years from now and take steps toward that.

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